Showing posts with label Anne Sophie. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Anne Sophie. Show all posts

Monday, May 21, 2012

Kiting on the Beach

Yesterday late afternoon Anne Sophie and I went for our favourite walk through the dunes of Wassenaar to the beach north of The Hague/Scheveningen. It was about 5 o'clock, and most beach goers already left, as it started to cool down after the hot and stuffy day.

It takes us 15 minutes to drive to the Meijendel Farm and another 25-30 minutes to walk the 2km trail through the woods and dunes to the beach. It should of course take less time, but Anne Sophie likes running around  and playing all kinds of games that she makes up along the way. This time I was supposed to be a calf and she a goat kid :) And then she started to draw crosses on the path with a stick to warn people not to walk there. And then we would draw the letters of her name, one letter every 20 meters or so. And then we were throwing the ball forward and trying to get to the ball first. When you walk like that, time really flies.



From Kiting on the Beach of Meijendel!

The sun was shining and the dunes were majestic. We hardly ever met anyone along the way, except (what a coincidence) some of our good friends Nadya, Volodya and Sergey, who were returning from the beach! Anne Sophie took Volodya's hand, even though she hadn't seen him for a couple of years, and started telling him stories from her school life. (To tell the truth, I am amazed how she trusts people that she hardly knows. I think it's a fine quality, even if some people may find it dagerous.) Sergey told of their trip to Mont St. Michel in Normandy, France. On Friday, he and Nadya and another friend were driving on the motorway, and then they thought they'd go to Brugge in Belgium. They had nothing with them except money, not even a tooth brush. But they thought what the heck! When close to Brugge, they missed the exit and decided to go on to France. They got home late Saturday night. That's a real adventure!

Except for a couple of walkers, the beach was virtually empty when we got there. It was sunny, but there was a cool breeze from the sea. Because of the haze we could neither see The Hague in the south nor Katwijk in the north. It felt like we were on some distant stretch of beach away from civilization.

And then we assembled our first kite that we bought on Queen's Day this April for a couple of Euros. It is a simple but beautiful triangular kite in rainbow colors. It is easy to get and keep flying in the wind, but it doesn't give you much steering control. We were running up and down the beach for almost 2 hours, and I must say I fell in love with kiting! What an intense felling of joy and freedom! I hope to be back soon with a more professional kite!


The sea water was very cold, but we did play Anne Sophie's favourite game of running away from the waves! And we would also draw on the sand. We drew Anne Sophie's name in Dutch and Russian (Аннушка) and also the word "Papa".

And then we got hungry and it was time to go home. We walked back through the dunes, and after Anne Sophie scratched her ankle and got really tired I carried her the rest of the way on my back. On the way back we called on Roderick to borrow his extension ladder so that Luda can paint the window frames tomorrow :)

It was a beautiful evening, something to cherish and remember for a long time!



Saturday, May 19, 2012

School Camp and Free Olympic Games

Monday through Wednesday this week Anne Sophie went to her first school camp! And I went with her! We were both quite excited. She was excited about the camp, because she had no idea what it was. Anne Sophie at her age of 4 is the youngest child at her school, so I was excited about how she would cope for 3 days away from home and from mama. I was also looking forward to getting to better know other children, parents and facilitators from our school De Vrije Ruimte (a democratic school for natural learning).

The camp took place at a wonderful location in the woods outside Eindhoven. We were lucky to get a room for the two of us with a bunk bed, and Anne Sophie immediately claimed the upper bed, which she would climb up and down multiple times.

The camp theme was the Olympic Games, and the kids called it De Vrije Spelen (The Free Games) and designed a logo for the camp that combined the school logo with the Olympic Games logo. So you can imagine that we had 3 days of games and sports, interspersed with creative activities, a disco, a film, meals, camp fires, guitar playing and plenty of leisure time. The location had everything one needs for a sports weekend: footbal fields, basketball, volleyball and tennis courts, a big children's playground, and a huge open air climbing facility!

The sports instructors team (Karin, Willem, Bram & Tamara, all physical training students) did a great job facilitating the sports activities. They brought the whole inventory of ball, rackets, bats, sticks, ropes, and even a slack line! We played football, basketball, tennis, badminton, table tennis, cricket, hockey. There was also athletics (long and high jumping and running), and newspaper-running and sack-racing, and much more. Kids higher than 1.30m did the open air climbing parkours in the trees in the rain. There was so much to choose from, and there was so much freedom to do what you wanted or not do anything special! Anne Sophie was enjoying the camp so much during these 3 days that she hardly ever remembered her mama :)

Anne Sophie kept practicing her jumping and even got a gold medal in the age group of 4-5 years old :) Watch here the video:


It was fun watching how the kids played and interacted with each other. I really felt that education through freedom works. Everybody seemed so at ease and relaxed and accepted and accepting of other people. Everybody could be completely themselves!


I was also impressed by Anne Sophie, by how she interacted with other, often much older children, how she trusted her friends and would do things I wouldn't even imagine she could because of that trust, how brave she is talking to different people and even talking publicly in a large group setting. I am very happy we sent her to this very special, small and unconventional school!



Thursday, April 26, 2012

Life is beautiful!

Last week was again full of life! Apart from work, which I enjoy very much these days, I did a lot of interesting stuff:

Monday: 1 hour of spinning lesson and 45 minutes of strength exercies

Tuesday: DevNight at Delta-N about Windows Azure cloud application platform

Wednesday: My Russian friends Konstantin and Sergey came over. We had a great sushi meal, and then talked a lot about programming, so that they left at midnight! It was a very enjoyable eveing!

Thursday: The book club at our local library. We talked about "Het Diner" by Herman Koch. A masterly written novel with a great plot, but, in my opinion, still lacking the depth of the Russian classics. The club was led by journalist Dolf Dukker, who did it very well. His theory why this book becase a best seller, contrary to other Koch's book is that it combines the 4 essential elements of human nature: food, territory, procreation and one other that I forgot. We had a great discussion, and the time flew! The next book is "Two Caravans" in June.

Friday:  Went with Anne Sophie to the Ridvan celebratioin in The Hague. Anne Sophie mad herself at home and played with many different people. But she was dead tired when we got home.

Saturday: First a great workout, then shopping, and then I spent the whole evening playing with the kids on the playground opposite our house. And there they were: my Belarusian-Ukrainian-Jewish daughter, a Moroccan girl, a Hindustan girl, 3 Dutch kids and another boy (I'm not ever sure of his origins), all playing together having fun, oblivious of any ethnic or age differences. We played tag and charades and even danced (they asked me to bring some music, so I brought a portable radio receiver). I often take part in their games, because my daughter is still too small to play unattended. But it also creates a fine feeling of community as I'm getting to better know the people in the neighbourhood (both kids and adults).

Sunday: Cleaned and washed the car, then a spinning workout. Then off to Amsterdam to meet an old Oslo University friend from Lithuania, Sarunas, who was visiting Amsterdam for a weekend. We talked a lot (as did Anne Sophie) and enjoyed a nice lunch at the Vondel park, after which I took them to the airport. Then we went to Lena's birthday in Leiden, ate some good food, talked and played some games with our Russian-speaking friends.

And now a brief summary of my sporting stats:
- 3 home-to-work commutes
- 6 hours of fitness

Monday, April 16, 2012

What a Week!

This past week has been great in many respects, including social life, sports and work! Here is a brief summary of the events:


  • Starting from Saturday, April 7, we made 4 visits to friends and got one visit ourselves:
    • Hedda's birthday at Hedda & Jasper's place was really "gezellig" (nice). Anne Sophie didn't want to leave at 9:30 pm :) She was talking to everybody and reading books with different people!
    • Sunday April 8 we went to Yura, Lena & Vadim for the Easter dinner! Vadim got to use my car to practice his driving skills! Anne Sophie couldn't wait for Vadim to get back and she played all evening until 11 pm.
    • Monday, me and Anne Sophie went to Yura, Lena and Vadim to play more games and for Vadim to practice some more driving.
    • On Thursday after work, Delta-N (my employer) arranged for an info evening and delicious meal at Flamengo's, on the beach of Kijkduin.
    • On Friday we had a friend over from Leiden.
    • Saturday and Sunday was the museum weekend, so we went to Naturalis, a science museum in Leiden, with Anne Sophie's school friend Yanna, and the next day to the Museon in The Hague with Yanna's sister Paula. Both museums were great fun, with lots of kids activities, but also a lot of interesting information and exhibits for adults. In the Museon, there were also workshops about plants and planting your own flowers and vegetables!

    • From What a Week!
    • We spent the Sunday evening with Marty and Peter, parents of Yanna and Paula. We had a superb dinner and great conversation, while the three girls were having a great time playing together.
  • Sports:
    • 1 bike commute to work
    • 5h 15min of fitness!
  • Work: I am currently working on a very interesting project, developing a web service for a customer. I am employing some innovative technologies and writing a lot of unit tests, which I enjoy very much!

Tuesday, October 4, 2011

Are We Our Own Slaves?

Tonight's Philosophy Cafe at De Vrije Ruimte was again a blast! Under the unmatched leadership of Pieter Mostert, we discussed the question "Are we slaves of ourselves?" using various techniques. We learned and practiced the six ways of refutation classified by the Romans:
  1. ab incerto 
  2. ab incredibili 
  3. ab impossibili 
  4. ab inconsequente
  5. ab indecente 
  6. ab incommode
Also we learned how to define things according to Aristotle, based on inclusion and exclusion.

I came up with this definition of a slave: Slave is somebody who is unaware of his/her true motives. In that sense, all of us are slaves to a greater or lesser degree.

There was a 15-year-old guy from South Africa at the cafe called Bernard. He spoke Afrikaans, which, although it is very similar to Dutch, I found hard to comprehend. Bernard was active in discussions and struck me as a sincere and intelligent young man.

By the way, tomorrow is Anne Sophie's second day at De Vrije Ruimte school! Her first day on Monday was a success. Even though she was quite shy in the morning, we had difficulty taking her home in the afternoon as she was so much enjoying playing with other kids!

Anne Sophie's First Day at School!

Monday 3 October was Anne Sophie's first day at school! She had been talking for weeks about going to school and telling other kids: "Ik ben groot geworden en ga naar de basisschool!" (I've grown up and will be going to the primary school!)


When asked which school she was going to, she'd say "a small school". It is indeed a very small school with a couple of dozens of children. The school is called De Vrije Ruimte (the free space). It is a democratic school based on the concept of natural learning, meaning that children learn best when they can freely develop their interests and explore the world around them at their own pace.

On her first day at school, she was wait-watching at first, clinging to her mummy, but after a short period of time she got involved in games with other kids and hardly noticed her mother any more. She took part in her first school meeting, at which she volunteered to help with the school newsletter. She probably didn't know exactly what that meant and raised her hand because other kids did. We came to take her home as she was playing the Quartet with 3 other children, and it took us some time to persuade her to go home with us. She was excited, but very tired. It was a beautiful and unforgettable day!

Friday, September 23, 2011

Anne Sophie Turned 4 Years Old!

Last Sunday, 18 September 2011, at 19:35 our precious daughter Anne Sophie turned 4 years old!

How can I express my feelings for my daughter? She is truly our best friend, the love of our life, our faithful companion in our travels and our everyday life events.

Anne Sophie
with grandma's Ukrainean cat

She may appear shy to those she meets for the first time. But that usually only lasts a few minutes. She is cheerful, playful, funny, smart, enthusiastic, she loves to play and laugh and run around! Her life force and love of life shine through her entire being.

in daddy's shirt on the beach!
She is resilient as she can walk long distances without complaining and she usually doesn't cry or complain when she falls or bumps against something or hurts something. Yet she is a sensitive child and can burst into tears when she sees other children cry. She almost never cries in order to manipulate, so if she does cry, I know that she needs immediate help and attention.

She is daring, yet cautious. She can climb all kinds of rocks and stairs and frames, but she is extremely careful at where she sets her feet and she would immediately ask for help when she realizes she's in trouble.





Anne Sophie likes playing all kinds of imaginative role plays with her toys. It's so much fun watching how she plays the different roles by changing the tone of her voice. At one point she plays a little child and at another point she is a mother or a father or her play group teacher. An interesting thing is that she doesn't play with dolls, but with her toy animals. And yes, in those plays we can hear so many things we tell her played out on her toys, which is a great learning experience for us!

Yes, she is our great teacher. When I sometimes get cross with Luda, Anne Sophie would tell me in a calm, almost mentoring voice: "Папочка, не надо сердиться на мамочку" ("Daddy, don't get angry at mummy.") She can also tell other children what they may or may not do.

She is enthusiastic and curious about the world. I like it when she asks "What is this? Why is that? What did they say?" She likes counting and reading letters and doing puzzles.

All in all, she's an enjoyable, lovable, "easy" child! But of course there are some things that need our attention:
  • She likes to go to bed late, I mean really late. She usually gets into bed at about 10 p.m., but then she still wants to play a bit, she wants us to read a book, etc., so it's not unusual that she falls asleep at around 11 p.m., which is of course very late, especially as she is starting school in a couple of weeks. I'm afraid she'll be a late riser, just like her mum :)
  • She likes to watch her cartoons either on DVD or on the PC, which is fine, but sometimes she spends too much time doing that. At least she doesn't watch television, in fact none of us do as we gave up our cable TV several years ago.
  • She can be very stubborn about what she wants or doens't want to do or eat.
  • She doesn't like to clean up and put away her toys (who does?), so our living room often looks like a mess. On the other hand, she gets really enthusiastic when all three of us do the cleaning up together! Just the other day we were giving our kitchen a serious clean-up, and Anne Sophie joined in with all her passion!
On Sunday we had a great birthday party for her with many guests, presents, games, lots of food, and a puppet show that I did together with a friend! It was a really simple story about an elephant that went missing from the zoo, but the kids really loved the show, and I am thinking of using it more often for both entertainment and educational purposes!

In just over a week, Anne Sophie is starting to go to school. It's no ordinary school, but a democratic school based on the principle of natural learning. We are all very excited, and I'll keep you informed about the developments!

Sunday, August 21, 2011

This Week's Accomplishments!

This week (August 15-21) I've done a lot of cycling and meditation:
  • 2h 15min of meditation (including walking meditation, sitting meditation and body scan meditation)
  • 2h of spinning
  • 2h 25min (61km) of cycling training
  • 5h 30min (101km) of just-for-fun cycling with Anne Sophie
I also spent a lot of time with Anne Sophie (played games with her, went with her to the beach, to the playground and to visit friends), and finally finished reading Primo Levi's 600-pages long book.

Monday, April 11, 2011

Holiday on Fuerteventura!

The long Dutch winter is over, the days are getting longer, my spirits are getting higher, and I feel an increasing urge to write and share!

So, we just got back from an unforgettable 8-day trip to Fuerteventura, the most eastern, second largest, but one of the least known Canary Islands.

Once again, we travelled at a very short notice: we booked a last-minute package holiday (flight & board), just 2 weeks in advance. It was a ridiculous price of 200 Euro per person, so we didn't have to think twice. I did a thorough preparation by borrowing 4 books and a video about Fuerteventura from the library. I read extensively and was very much intrigued by the island.

It's always exciting to find out whether a place meets your expectations. Fuerteventura turned out nothing we had expected, but nonetheless absolutely fantastic.









Day 1 (March 31):
Leaving the cold, rainy Holland behind, we boarded an early 4.5-hour long charter flight, with Anne Sophie falling asleep almost immediately and having slept through most of the flight. As we approached the destination, we could see the volcanic craters of the neighboring island of Lanzarotte.

As we left the airport, we were met with the warm summer breeze and lots of sun. Our daughter loves buses, and the 40-minute bus ride from the airport to our hotel in Corralejo in the very north of the island was really fun! We saw a landscape we never experienced before: stones, desert, solidified lava, mountains, volcanoes, emerald sea, little vegetation and a lot of wind. Beautiful and foreign!

Our apartment/hotel was quite OK, nothing out of the ordinary, pretty basic, but good enough, with lots of light and beautiful colors, and mostly English tourists. This is low season, so we didn't see great numbers of tourists in Corralejo or elsewhere. We spent the rest of the day wandering in the small traditional center of the former fishing village, and then took a pretty long walk along the western boulevard, with Anne Sophie running around wildly to and fro, trying to climb the lava stones and all kinds of ladders and climbing frames set up along the boulevard. There was wind and beautiful sunset and great view of Lanzarotte and of the small neighboring island of Isla Lobos. We ended up in the centre of the town, eating delicious local tapas (with adorable Canary small wrinkly potatoes and Mojo sauce) and listening to the local musicians.

Day 2 (April 1):
Our rule is to always buy local produce as much as possible. It is usually the most delicious food you can get. Due to the arid climate, not much is grown on Fuerteventura, but the local Majorero goat cheese, tomatoes, lettuce and especially bananas are really good. So these would be the bulk of our breakfast and our take-away sandwiches for lunch. It was Friday and we were planning to go to the neighboring Isla Lobos, but the glass bottom boat was out of operation on that day, so we decided instead to take a long walk along the beach.

We started out pretty early and, as always, we realized too late that our extremely white skins we burning. The only one with good amounts of sun lotion was Anne Sophie, but Luda and me were in for a couple of days of burned skin. Nevertheless, we enjoyed the walk and ended up on a fine beach with lots of kite surfers showing off their mastery of the wind. Anne Sophie enjoyed running away from the approaching waves with her usual lots of laughter and screaming and squealing. Then we played in the sand and got back home pretty tired but very happy!

Day 3 (April 2):
I picked up our rented car early in the morning and we went off to explore the island. We drove to La Oliva (former capital) with a beautiful Canary-style church and went on to see the famous House of the Coronels, impressive and majestic in its colonial beauty, set against desert-like mountainous landscapes. In the House you can learn a lot about the history of the island and about the day-to-day life on the island in the old days. Then we drove through the interior of the island, with moon-like landscapes, gorgeous mountains, windy passes and small villages towards another former capital, Betancuria, a small, picturesque town established by the first Spanish colonizers under the leadership of Jean de Béthencourt. From there we proceeded to the west coast at Ahuj, with black sand beaches, cliffs and caves that can be reached through a narrow path along the cliffs. The sun was already starting to descend and the sea and the waves glistening in the sun were magnificent.

We drove back in the direction of Betancuria and stopped at Vega de Rio Palmas, from where we embarked on a hike along a dry bed of a stream (barranco) towards the tiny white chapel (Ermita de Virgin de la Peña) situated precariously on a side of a beautiful gorge. At the altar hangs a painting showing the discovery of a statue of the saint which now stands at the main church. This statue was brought to the village by Jean de Bethencourt. Shortly afterwards the church was totally destroyed by 'Jaban' the pirate in 1593 but the statue was hidden so well that it was only rediscovered in the 17th century. It was along this stream that Jean de Bethencourt and his army marched upstream in the 15th century.

Pretty tired and hungry after 2.5 hours of walking we got into the car and went looking for a restaurant. The restaurants in Betancuria and La OlivaOliva and Corralejo

Day 4 (April 3):
The next day we decided to explore the volcanoes not far from our base in Corralejo. We drove to Las Lajares and walked about 12 km along a series of bigger and smaller volcanoes, which arose as a result of eruptions some 8000 years ago. We walked past Montana Colorada, up to the perfect crater of Calderon Hondo. This is where Anne Sophie started to show character. When we started climbing up to the edge of the crater, she insisted that she wanted to walk along and not to be carried in the baby carrier. I was quite stunned as she walked all the way up the steep path, with me, of course, holding her firmly by the hand. Anne Sophie had a lot of fun at the viewing platform with lots of squirrels running all around her, while we enjoyed the beautiful view of the crater and of the glowing hills and mountains of the northern part of the island.

On the way down, there were a couple of stone huts, which turned out to be restored dwellings of the early inhabitants of the island. While Anne Sophie was running in and out the rooms of the houses, we learned how the people of the island prepared (quite sophisticatedly) the ground to make it fertile.

We continued to the Bayuyo volcano, but couldn't quite decide which one it was. Only on the way back did we notice the path up to the volcano. Luda decided not to go up to the Volcano and continued back, while the two of us went up. Yet halfway we turned back, because the wind was getting very strong.

We drive to the picturesque coastal village of El Cotillo. We visit the lighthouse and walk on the solid lava, in which small puddles of sea water turn into salt. We end up on a wonderful white beach with a small beach restaurant and delicious fresh Gallo (chicken) fish. Anne Sophie is playing and running around in the sand and shallow sea water.

It was a nice day with a lot of sun and wind!
Day 5 (April 4):
On day 5 we drove all the way to the south of the island with short stops in Antigua, Pajara en La Pared, with the fashionable Morro Jable as our final destination. From there we drove another few kilometers on a gravel road and started on our day trip along the valley of Gran Valle up to the beautifl mountain pass of Degollada de Cofete, which in the old days used to be the only way to the small village of Cofete. As we start climbing up, Anne Sophie asks for a walking stick and walks along. She really enjoys climbing! There's lots of wind at the top of the pass, we can hardly stand upright. But the view on both sides is magnifiscent. If we had more time, we'd go down to Cofete, but it's getting late and we walk down back to the car, with Anne Sophie refusing to get back to her baby carrier. We sing along as we walk and the time flies!

We drive along the beautiful wide white-sand beaches of the East coast and stop in a small coastal village of Tarajalejo for a delicious meal of fish soup and fresh local fish. German tourists are everywhere. We enjoy the small beach, Anne Sophie is playing with a cat and a local boy. Life is wonderful!

Day 6 (April 5):
It's time for a glass-botom boat trip to Isla de Los Lobos! We leave early in the morning with the first boat. For Anne Sophie this is probably her first boat trip. She is secure in my lap. She likes the boat, but is a little cautious. We disembark and head directly towards the volcano of Montana Lobos, the highest point of this small, uninhabited island, which used to be a home to a rare sort of seals. We climb up the volcano along a steep narrow path, with Anne Sophie climbing along, using a walking stick! The view of the island as well as the view of Correlejo and of the remaining half of the crater are magnificent. We walk down, with Anne Sophie's hand firmly in my hand.

We board our glass-bottom boat for a sea trip. We watch the shoals of fish swarming in the clear waters under the boat. There is an opportunity to put on a mask and swim in the sea next to the fish. I grab the chance along with two other young men. It's fantastic!

We return to the Isla de Lobos and spend the rest of our time on the beach of a quiet lagune. There is no one around and we sunbathe and swim naked - wonderful! We take the last boat back to Corralejo and spend the evening in the cosy centre of Corralejo enjoying ice-cream, night-life and live performances by various local artists.

Day 7 (April 6):
We drive a few kilometers to the east of Corralejo, park by the white-sand dunes and walk away from the sea in what looks like a real desert. White sand is everywhere. We climb and slide down the sand dunes. Anne Sophie is enjoying it immensely. What a feeling! I've only been to a desert once, which was in the Judean desert. I liked it there, it had small plants and bushes and so. But this desert is just sand, lots of it, sand everywhere. There are no people around. Only sand, sun and wind. We walk slowly, no rush. Peace.

We walk back to the sea. The wind is so strong that there are no people on the small beach. Luda settles in behind some stones. Anne Sophie and I run from the waves and play in the sand.

We drive to the west-coast town of El Cotillo. There are surfers all around the beach. We choose a restaurant with a view over the far stretching cliffs of the coastline. We see the surfers in the distance struggling with the waves. We eat freshly caught queen fish (at least that's what they call it) and some goat meat. The ice-cream is also delicious. There is a little boy who comes to play with Anne Sophie. They seem to be perfectly al right, even though they don't speak the same language. We meet the mother, who is a Canarian from Tenerife. We talk to some international girls who surf and hang out with surfers. One of them, a Czech girl, is a surfing photographer. She tells me I should try surfing. Maybe! It sounds like lots of fun!

The sun is coming down. Anne Sophie and I climb the roof of a stone barn to bid the sun farewell, our last sunset on Fuerteventura.

Day 8 (April 7):
Everything comes to an end. It was our last day on the island. We drove down to the nameless pass between Valle de Santa Ines and Betancuria. From there we started our last hike: first a steep climb to the cross of Morro de la Cruz and then a picturesque walk along the mountain ridge to Morro de la Fuente Vieja. Along the way we saw many beautiful small flowers, we saw eagles in the sky, and the view of the west coast was majestic. On the way back, Luda decided not to climb up to the cross, but to traverse the mountain along the northern slope. I begged her not to go that way, but she did and so I went along with Anne Sophie in the backpack. I must say at certain points I thought that I can easily fall down and the slopes were quite steep. So slowly, step by step, we managed to get to our car. I was really angry at Luda that she insisted on taking that route. But all's well that ends well. On the way back we visited a local goat cheese factory in Tindaya and bought some cheese for home. We went back to Corralejo, spent a couple of ours on the beach, with Anne Sophie and me building sand castles, delivered our car, boarded the bus to the airport and flew off back to Amsterdam, with Anne Sophie sleeping all the way. We arrived at 3 am and got on the night train to Leiden, where we parked our car.

But our adventures did not end there. The car wouldn't start because the battery went empty (even though I didn't leave any lights on). So we had to wait for about an hour before we got help from the car assistance. We got home at about 6am, and being tired and confused, I left two of our bags outside. Luckily our neighbor was walking out his dog, saw the bags and brought them home. All's well that ends well. It was a fantastic holiday, and we'll surely be back on the Canary Islands!

Saturday, June 6, 2009

Roses in Roosendaal

This morning we went to Roosendaal once again. Luda and my mom went to buy some more clothes at the Mexx sale, while Anne Sophie and me went to walk around the town. We had really good luck, and not only because the weather was good.

Today Roosendaal's main square was also the venue of a Roses Festival, with lots of flowers, music and cheerful people. By the way, the name of this town, located near the Belgian border, means Rose Valley, so I guess this was no coincidence.

Anne Sophie and I had a really good time. She was running around the square, danced to the music of the brass bands, played with other kids, and entertained the people around her with her smiles and dancing. In between, she ate strawberries (they are now at their best) and some rice cookies.

I managed to do all the important groceries at the market and at a nearby organic shop. While I was shopping, Anne Sophie fell asleep, just in time for us to go and pick up the ladies and go home!

Thursday, September 25, 2008

Anne Sophie is 1 year old!

Time flies and last week our dearest Anne Sophie turned 1 year old! Celebrations lasted 4 days and started on Thursday September 18, her actual birth date. Dad took the afternoon off and went for a long walk with Anne Sophie to the De Horsten estate. In the evening, about the time of the actual birth (19:35), the three of us went to the pond in Leidschenhage for a small birthday picnic by the fountain.


The next day, Anne Sophie was receiving a company of our good Russian-speaking friends. We had a great time together. But when dad went to put the tired baby-girl to bed, he accidentally himself fell asleep, which did not prevent the guests from enjoying the rest of the party :)

The following day we got a visit from Katja, Ronny and their 10-month old son Zhenya, as well as their two nieces. The kids were having a great time, especially they enjoyed playing football, or rather headball, with a balloon. The game went like this: the fathers would hold the babies in their hands and would let them pass the balloon to each other by hitting it with their heads. This gave rise to lots of excitement and laughter.

On Sunday morning, dad and Anne Sophie again went to De Horsten for about 3 hours. They found some very fine mushrooms, of which mom made a very delicious soup! In the afternoon, we got another birthday visit, this time from Ira and her 6-month-old son Lucca. We ended up singing Russian songs from our youth, letting the children play and enjoy each other's company.

On a different note, in the past few weeks we've been walking and biking a lot. Anne Sophie really enjoys both, and seems very busy watching things as we are passing by and trying to make sense of them. She is now actively trying walking, by holding on to different objects in the room, mostly the couches. But she is still afraid to take that first step with nothing to hold on to.

Dad, that is me, has been reading several books on child development. But mom says: just go and play with your kid, for by the time you finish those books, she'll be a grown-up :) Well, dad's way of doing things is that he first reads how to do something and then does it. The problem is that this reading may indeed last forever and result in nothing practical :) The books are really good and I'll talk about them in a different post!

Monday, August 18, 2008

Crawling, brushing teeth, travelling

Things have been pretty hectic this summer, and daddy found no time to write up any decent story on behalf of Anne Sophie. We've been busy redecorating our apartment (now it is finally finished!), and dad was away for 3 weeks in Indian Himalayas, and there was something to do every evening (walking or biking with Anne Sophie, bathing her, etc.) and every weekend (visiting places). And even though we have given up our TV subscription and haven't watched any TV (and no olympics!), time is still a rare commodity.


Well, enough excuses, for today our Anne Sophie has turned 11 months old. She has learned and experienced many new things:
  • She started to crawl. Her way of crawling is pretty peculiar, as she tries to crawl with both hands and both legs at the same time. But it works out quite well! And she can crawl very fast if she really wants to get something. On the other hand, she'd rather not crawl if she doesn't have to :).

  • She achieved mastery in controlling her baby walker. She can stop and turn exactly where she wants, and she can step over thresholds, by lifting the walker a bit, to go from one room to another. But the use of baby walkers is actually discouraged, so we use it very sparingly.

  • Anne Sophie also actively tries walking. While she still needs support, she vigorously makes steps in the direction she wants.

  • One of her favorite activities is brushing her (steel only two) teeth with a baby brush. I guess she likes massaging her gums, where her other teeth should be coming out very soon.

  • "Reading" books is another favorite activity. This is also one of the easiest ways to calm her down - just give her a book! She grabs a book, often upside down :), turns pages, points with her finger at pictures and letters and even pretends that she is reading by saying things in her own language. I try to read her a story or two every evening before she goes to bed.

     

  • Anne Sophie already has words for certain things, like "ku" or "quo" for a cow, horse, goat, deer or anything that looks like that; "mama" is usually a call for something that she badly wants like to eat or to get up; "baba" is for grandma; "tata" is for photos; she often says "papa" but I am not sure if she really means me :). She also says words that resemble Russian words for a bird, thanks, etc.

  • She also started to travel around a bit. Last weekend we went to Brugge en Brussels to show grandma some fine places in Belgium. The main attraction that weekend was a huge flower carpet, made of fresh flowers on the main square in Brussels. Anne Sophie withstood the trip very well and seemed to enjoy it quite a bit, especially the children's playground and the swing in the park just across from the Royal Palace in Brussels. There were children of all kinds of backgrounds and languages playing together, and Anne Sophie was staring at them all the time with great interest!

     


That's it for now. Watch out for our new installments. And yes, I am still planning to pup up some video's on this blog!

Sunday, May 18, 2008

Did you say "mama"?

Another month has passed by. Anne Sophie has been celebrating her 8 month (245 days) birthday today! It has been a wonderful day. Let me describe it to you in detail.


Anne Sophie woke up at about 6 o'clock in the morning, about the same time as papa. To let mama have some rest, we sneaked out of the bedroom and went to play in the living room. After waking up Anne Sophie is generally very good humored and she can play by herself for an hour or so. Papa used this opportunity to check the news and read a little. At about 7 o'clock, we went into the kitchen to do the dishes from the last night's 19 Day's Feast. Papa would do and dry the dishes, while Anne Sophie would watch him closely and wonder what he is doing. Then we went back to the living room to play and listen to a Russian-speaking radio station (by the way, Radio Svoboda is a very high quality radio station).

Because mama was still sweetly sleeping in her bed, we decided to go for a run together. The sun was shining, the birds were singing in the brisk Sunday morning air, and there were no people or cars to be seen. Papa was jogging and pushing a lightweight stroller, in which Anne Sophie was sitting and looking around. We jogged for about 45 minutes with two small breaks for Anne Sophie to watch the rabbits in park Schakenbosch. On the way back she fell asleep and slept until we got home, despite the occasional bumps in the road.

Then all three of us prayed together and had breakfast. After that papa had to go to a hardware store (which was luckily open on Sunday) to buy some stuff to finish the plumbing job that he had embarked on the day before but had not finished. After a couple of hours our new sink cabinet in the bathroom was finally installed and working! Anne Sophie would occasionaly come up with mama to see what dad was doing.

After lunch the three of us biked to the nearby town of Voorburg, where mama went to a flea market, while papa and daughter biked to a children farm (kinderboerderij) near the town center on the Vliet. There were all kinds of animals there: deer, sheep, goats, rabbits, Guinea pigs, roosters, chickens, and even peacocks. But our Anne Sophie was actually more interested in all the children running around and feeding the animals.

On the way back home, she fell asleep in her bike seat, and papa had to use his finger to cushion her head, to prevent it from bumping agains the handle bar. In fact, she enjoys biking very much!

After dinner we phoned aunt Lena and grandma Lora. Then Anne Sophie had an extra long bath, in which she played with all kinds of rubber toys. After the bath, papa gave her a massage, then mama breastfed her and put her to bed.


Papa played and sang some songs to her, red a story from a fairy-tale book and then finally both of them fell asleep :)


All in all, it has been a wonderful day!

Statistics:
- Height: unknown
- Weight: 8 kg

Oh, I almost forgot to tell you that now Anne Sophie often says "mamma", when she wants attention or some food. Shall we say that this was her first word?

Friday, April 18, 2008

First tooth and Swimming under water

Today our Anne Sophie is turning 7 months old! The months of her still very short life fly past very quickly, and we enjoy the many beautiful days and experiences that they bring to us:


Anne Sophie continues to grow as a joyful, smiling, curious, lovely little girl. In the past month, we have witnessed the following developments:
  • She can now sit very well.
  • She is getting her first little tooth, which is just barely showing at the moment, but is clearly touchable and can bite.
  • Anne Sophie has been swimming under water with her dad, of which we also have some pictures.
  • She talks quite a lot and sometimes she appears to sing.
  • She smiles and laughs a lot!
  • She likes to grab something and then use it on something else to see what the effects are of the interaction of two objects, in other words, she is heavily involved in her "scientific" experiments. :)
  • She has been meeting children of about her age, but she does not seem to react to them the way she does towards adults (perhaps, they are just less interesting, because they barely move and almost never talk :)).
  • She now reacts differently to different adults: to some she smiles, to others she cries.
I conclude with some statistics:
  • Height: 65.5 cm
  • Weight: 7.55 kg
Watch out for some video's in our next blog!

Monday, March 24, 2008

Meeting Jonathan

Apart from her weekly 30-minutes baby swimming class, Anne Sophie almost never meets her peers. This Easter weekend was very special, because all the way from Finland came Jonathan, a son of our good friends Helena & Jim Law, grandson of Roberta and Jim Law Sr. Jonathan is just 2.5 weeks older than Anne Sophie. Last Saturday the two kids had plenty of opportunity to play together as you can see on the photographs.


It was good to exchange experiences and ideas with Helena and Jim. We learned from Helena how to make a new kind of sling, which feels a lot more fun for Anne Sophie, now that she can sit and loves to watch what's going on around her. Jim reads to Jonathan in English from Dr. Seuss. We also read nursery rhymes to Anne Sophie, but Dr. Seuss sounds a lot more fun :) Helena also taught us some exercises from mother & child gynmastics class that she follows back in Finland. Unfortunately, I haven't been able to find any such classes hier in Holland. But I'll ask around!

Tuesday, March 18, 2008

Planting Trees

Today our little daughter has turned 6 months old, an important milestone in our life! People who see her only occasionally remark on how fast she is changing. But to me the change is so gradual that I don't really seem to notice it. Only the photos and videos of the past few months reveal the actual pace of change. So I keep posting the new photos for all of you to see:
For those interested in statistics, Anne Sophie is now 7.1 kilo and 64 cm. She can roll over from her back to her tummy and can sit pretty well. She likes to play with her toys (and her toes :) ), but she still requires and enjoys the company of others. For as far as possible she takes part in all our activities, including going to visit friends and presiding at the table during the meals.

A few days ago, with the help of local municipality, we planted 4 alder trees (elzen, ольха) near to our home. We did this to celebrate Anne Sophie's birth, and we hope she will enjoy watching them grow as we enjoy watching her grow and develop!

Monday, February 18, 2008

Laughter Girl


Today Anne Sophie is turning 5 months old. Looking back I must say each of these 153 days spent with her has been a feast! Every day, as I am waking up, I think about her, say a little prayer for her, and wait for her to wake up in order to look into her smiling grey eyes, to give her a kiss and to hold her in my arms. Every day, coming home from work, I find myself smiling in anticipation to see her and be with her again. (Now as I read the above few lines, I realize that this sounds very much like being in love. Well, that's what it is: father's love for his baby daughter!)


But am I really earnest about all this feast-thing? An opinion that I often hear (especially from those without children) is that being a parent is about hard work, sleepless nights, constant noise, no time for yourself, etc., with only occasional rewards. Well, this might hold true for some families. But my experience has so far been a very different one. It is true that these days I spent almost all of my free time with my baby. However, it's not becuase I have to, but because I want to :) Whatever I do, like changing diapers, bathing, baby-swimming, singing to put her to sleep, going for walks with her, playing or just watching her is highly enjoyable and makes me happy. I don't experience this as hard work, but rather as meaningful entertainment.

And what can be more gratifying than your child's happy smile? That's what Anne Sophie been doing for the last few weeks. She smiles at almost everyone who smiles at her. And now she is starting to laugh out loud!

Thursday, November 15, 2007

Growing up with Anne Sophie


Papa (me) has been very busy lately with his work and his little daughter, that's why he hasn't posted anything for a few weeks. But despite lack of time, I'd like to write briefly about our progress and show some pictures of Anne Sophie!

What can I say? Anne Sophie is a sweet, good hearted little girl. She needs and gets a lot of love and care from mama, papa and grandma. But I can also say that she takes care of them too. You might ask: How is that possible?
Well, she does that by sleeping well through the night, thereby giving mama and papa the much needed rest. She would usually wake up once or twice a night to drink some milk and would then fall asleep again. Even when she wakes up when she is not hungry, she would usually stay relatively quiet. She likes the fact that she can sleep very close to her parents and hear and feel their presence. But what can be a better bed than papa or mama themselves?

She also likes taking long walks together with papa in a special sling. Sometimes during these walks they find mushrooms, and sometimes very big ones!

She often enjoys talking in her own baby language. Sometimes I think that she thinks to herself: "These adults are not developed enough to understand what I am saying. But never mind, they'll learn to understand as they grow up."

A few days ago
Anne Sophie went to a reunion with the kids that she met while still in her mother's womb (the mothers were then following a pregnancy yoga class). It was a lot of fun to see them all with her own eyes! Can you figure out which one is our Annushka on this photo?

Let's pray that she "may be trained, grow and develop, and appear in the utmost beauty."

Saturday, October 6, 2007

Anne Sophie and Religious Experience

In his brilliant work Psychoanalysis and Religion, Erich Fromm describes humanistic religious experience (versus authoritarian one) as "the experience of oneness with the All, based on one’s relatedness to the world as it is grasped with thought and with love." This is an experience of "love for others as well as for oneself and of solidarity of all living beings."

Seeing my baby being born, holding it and caring for it has been a truly religious experience for me. It has evoked in me a deep sense of love, wonderment, tenderness, caring, giving, and not only towards my little girl, but towards the whole world around me. Suddenly, strangers are no longer strangers, and I smile at every person I come across.

This has probably been the most powerful experience of this kind in my life. Other examples include watching my wife as she is sleeping or embroidering or doing something else unaware of my watching her; or wondering at the majestic beauty of nature in the mountains, at the sea or in the countryside; or reading the writings or a book and being struck by the truth conveyed in them; or being with a group of people and suddenly feeling an intense sense of oneness with them.

A dear friend of ours, Suzanne Gerstner, related a similar experience when I shared this with her. She remembered watching her then newly born son Erick (now a bright, kind-hearted young man) and wondering if anything less than a perfect divine being, God, could produce such a perfect little human being.

At this very moment, I am lying in bed with my precious baby half asleep on my chest. I could watch her like this for hours, sensing her breath and all her small movements against my body. My heart is overwhelmed with bliss and almost universal love. I wish and hope I can take this sense of unconditional love into my daily life, showing a little more kindness and appreciation towards everyone I meet!

Tuesday, September 25, 2007

Anne Sophie - birth and first week

Anne SophieWonder of wonders, miracle of miracles
song from The Fiddler on the Roof

Miracles happen every day. Sometimes we have to wait long for them to happen, sometimes years. Our little miracle happened after more than six years of patient waiting and trying, after a number of miscarriages, after an ectopic pregnancy (внематочная беременность), after many medical examinations. Finally, we conceived a child in a completely natural way, and out of seeming nothingness, out of two miniscule cells, out of love of two individuals, a little precious human being came to life!

Anne Sophie Levin was born on Tuesday, September 18, 2007, at the Westeinde Ziekenhuis (hospital) in The Hague, Netherlands. The contractions began early in the morning, and at 4 a.m. we took a 20-minutes ride to the hospital. The labour continued until 6 p.m. under close supervision from an experienced, well trained team of doctors and nurses. My wife Luda worked very hard, enduring often unbearable pain and fatigue. However, the uterus would not open fast enough. The doctors decided that letting the labour go on like this could put the baby at risk and opted for caesarean section. The operation was not easy, because the baby already went quite deep into the birth channel, and was additionally complicated by the presence of a few uterine fibroids. Yet the surgical team under the leadership of Dr. C.A. Yedema did a great job, and at 19:33 our little girl was born!

I was at Luda’s side during the operation and was the first of the two of us to see our little daughter. Luda could see her just very briefly, because the operation had to go on. After the birth, there was a lot of hustle and running around and photographing in the room, and I was given a chance to cut a piece of the umbilical cord and all that. But among all this hustle, the most amazing thing was the little pinky red being squirming in front of me.

I cannot describe my feelings as I was watching my own little baby for the first time. It was a combination of love, wonder and tenderness mixed with anxiety and exhaustion. The girl was so small and precious, she seemed so helpless and fragile … I could not keep tears from flowing. And yet she was amazingly awake and active, looking and kicking around. She wouldn’t cry much, but would rather frown and wriggle when she did not like something.

After she was examined, weighed (3.14 kg, 51 cm) and dressed, IFather and child held her in my arms for about an hour and a half until her mother was finally brought back into the labour room. With lights deemed, in complete silence and with classical music in the background, I could not take my eyes off my baby girl, who lay quietly in my arms.

Luda and Anne Sophie stayed in the hospital for 4 days. The doctors and the personnel of the maternity division took very good care of them, for which I am very grateful. Fathers are not allowed to stay in the hospital overnight, so I would come over every day. I’d talk with them, read to them, play the guitar and sing to them.

But what is better than home? We’ve been at home for 3 days now. There is a lot to learn for all three of us: breastfeeding, diaper changing, bathing, etc. Luckily, the Dutch health care system helps you a lot by providing the so-called kraamzorg, whereby a trained nurse comes over every day for a period of 5-7 days to care for the mother and the child, doing all kinds of chores and educating the parents about different aspects of child care.

Now a few words about the name. Anne Sophie is named after all four of her great-grandmothers (may they rest in peace): Hannah (Dasha) Levin-Pukhovich, Sofia Barshay-Disman, Hanna Verbnaya and Hanna Suslenko. The name Anne is derived from the biblical Hebrew name Hannah or Channah meaning grace, charm or mercy. Sophie is a Greek name meaning wisdom. So we pray for our Anne Sophie to grow up as a graceful, charming, kindhearted, compassionate and wise human being.

Now about the date: 18-9-2007 was a special day in The Netherlands. It was the third Tuesday of September, and hence a prinsjesdag, the day on which the Queen, cheered by the crowds of her loyal subjects, rides in her golden carriage from the Noordeinde palace to the Binnenhof in The Hague to open the parliamentary season with a speech outlining the government policies for the coming year. Well, all of this was happening just a couple of hundred meters away from the Westeinde hospital, where Luda was labouring. The HaugeThere is a wonderful view over the city from the 12th floor of the maternity division, but we couldn’t actually see anything going on, because of the narrow streets lined with stately houses.

Those of you who like number 9 will be amuzed to notice that the day, month and year of Anne Sophie’s birth are all multiples of 9. Number 9 is the highest single-digit number (at least in base ten :)) and symbolizes completeness in the Baha’i Faith. Number 18 is special in Judaism, for this is the numeric value of the Hebrew word life (chai).

As a pleasant surprise, as if a reward for her hard work and patience, the day after the birth, Luda received a letter from the Dutch Naturalization Service saying that the Queen approved her application for Dutch citizenship! Congratulations!

Well, this was the story of the birth of Anne Sophie Levin. Through this blog, I’ll keep you up to date on how she is getting on. If you pray, please pray for her health, growth and development!

Click on the image below to see some pictures of Anne Sophie!
Anne Sophie Levin - first week

Here you can find out more about the history and genealogy of the family Levin.